Five Ways to Catch Your Cheating Partner
Many people have seen television shows like “Cheaters” that catch people in relationships in the act of cheating. The dramatized nature of cheating in modern society often leads people to suspicion that their significant other may be cheating on them. Catching a partner that you suspect is cheating can be difficult because most people having affairs think of creative ways to cover their tracks. Catching a cheater is a lot like being a detective. It’s important to monitor your significant other in a way that doesn’t potentially ruin the relationship.
Lack of Attention
It is often difficult for someone who is cheating to hold complete attention on two men or women simultaneously. People with jobs, families and hobbies usually find it difficult to strike a balance when things are normal. Relationships are similar to plants. They need to be tended to on a regular basis or they wither.
Does he seem to be spending too much time at work?
Visible Nervousness
People who cheat are often visibly trying to conceal evidence. This is most visible through their behavior.
Does he appear nervous if you try to grab his phone?
Hidden Evidence
Someone who is cheating may make an overt effort to hide evidence.
Is his internet browsing history empty?
Are there blank contacts listed in his phone?
Overt Privacy
It is normal for people in relationships to want to maintain a small amount of privacy. Many people have details about themselves that they wouldn’t share with their significant other because they might be embarrassing. If you notice your boyfriend is intentionally putting locks on his phone and computer, you may have reason to be suspicious.
Does he refuse to share his computer passwords with you?
Does he step into the other room before unlocking his phone?
Shady Communication
Poor communication is another good sign that your relationship may be compromised. Your boyfriend may refuse to tell you where he is going at night or on weekends.
Does he appear distant and hard to communicate with?
